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The Meaning I Found This Year

12/22/2018

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Sam Burnham, Curator
​@C_SamBurnham
PictureThe Journey of the Magi - James Tissot, 1894
Christmas Day is when we recognize the birth of Christ. And while many critics are quick to point out that Jesus would not have been born on December 25, we worship Christ and not the day. He is the focus and that we recognize the 25th as His day is the only thing that gives that particular day any significance over any other.

It is no no big secret that this is my first Christmas with my oldest son away from home. He is in a very cold and windy Illinois learning the ways of a sailor. This has been a long term goal for him and a sacrifice he has freely made. With him so far from home and with only minimal communication, it is a sacrifice our family shares with him.

And so on this Christmas, more than any before it, I am reminded of what Christmas truly is.

“And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us, (and we beheld his glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father,) full of grace and truth.”
-John 1:14
​Over the last 18+ years, God has taught me more about Himself through my children than by any other means. Through being a father, I have gained that εριγνωσις, that experiential knowledge of all those Scripture passages about The Father. Words on the page have walked along beside me and I now know them as trusted friends and not just memorized ideas.

I have tasted, ever so slightly, of the pride and the pain of a father whose son has chosen to go far from home because he places the welfare of others before his own. I know the fear of a father whose son’s comfort, well-being, and very life now rest in the hands of a cruel world.

I don't say this to equate myself with God, my son with The Son, boot camp with the Incarnation, or Naval Service with the Crucifixion or Resurrection. I say it to show how I came to the realization of the true meaning of Christmas. While we celebrate the birth, we know what must come:
“And in Jesus Christ his only Son our Lord,
Who was conceived by the Holy Ghost,
Born of the Virgin Mary,
Suffered under Pontius Pilate,
Was crucified, dead, and buried:”

Christmas, for all its cheer and goodwill, is about the sacrifice of a son. It was that very sacrifice of the Son that created the redemptive forces that make the cheer and goodwill of Christmas possible. I’m not sure I would have completely grasped this until this year, this distance, this silence. But I have a much better understanding of it now.

I hope you spend this holiday with those you lave. If you can't, I pray for your peace and comfort as I pray for my own. 
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Judy link
12/23/2018 01:56:01 pm

This is one of many holidays that I have spent without my children. Two are close, but my daughter - my first born - is in London. She has crafted a life for herself and her new family that doesn't include her brothers or me. It hurts more than words can say that a child chooses to be elsewhere. However, the love of my boys reminds me how lucky I am, and that I can still touch and hug them. Each holiday season gets harder, as you will come to know. I have the peace from the Child that all will be okay, and He's taking care of everything.
Merry Christmas Sam. You're not alone!

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Sam
12/28/2018 09:31:05 pm

Judy, thanks for sharing this. It definitely helps although I do hurt for you over it. I hope you’re having great holidays. Y’all enjoy the parade!

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